OurFamilyWizard’s exclusive tool, ToneMeter, helps co-parents communicate with less conflict and more civility.
Tonemeter
Communicate calmly—without stirring up conflict
OurFamilyWizard’s exclusive tool, ToneMeter, helps you spot language that could escalate conflict—so you can change it and sound civil.
NEW: ToneMeter AI makes communication easier by suggesting calm, neutral versions of emotional messages.
Reshape your communication
Communication sets the tone for your co-parenting relationship. ToneMeter points out when your message might sound confrontational. ToneMeter AI will give you a neutral alternative that still gets the point across.
ToneMeter helps you notice your own communication style—and then adjusts the tone (if you want to) without changing the meaning. Regardless of what your co-parent does or says, reducing negativity in communication lowers your stress.
Using ToneMeter can help support you during a difficult, emotional time.
When one co-parent feels upset while communicating, the other parent often responds in the same way or even escalates the situation. Quickly, the conversation turns into an argument. With ToneMeter AI’s help, you can completely avoid that original trigger.
Keep the attention on taking care of the kids, not how you feel about each other.
Over time, you’ll get used to communicating with your co-parent civilly and productively. This new way of writing might become a habit. It will feel comfortable, because it’s so fast and easy with ToneMeter AI’s guidance.
You can escape the gloom, feel less helpless, and even set the overall tone for your communication.
Co-parenting communication is easier with ToneMeter AI
With ToneMeter AI, you can truly improve your communication. It offers suggestions for turning an emotional draft into a calm, clear message. As a result,
- Writing takes less emotional energy.
- Messages take less time.
- Communication feels less stressful.
- You’re less likely to escalate conflict.
When you keep your side of the street clean, then lawyers, mediators, therapists, and judges will notice that you’re communicating politely and productively—which can help in a disagreement regarding parenting time.
Learn more about ToneMeter
Language in context
ToneMeter doesn’t just flag swear words—it analyzes your language in context to understand what impression it will make.
Private feedback
There’s no option to create a ToneMeter report, and none of the ToneMeter feedback is recorded. It’s just a tool for self-reflection. It’s completely up to you what you do with this feedback.
Always included
ToneMeter is included in all subscriptions, and you can use it in multiple tools and features across the app.
A trademarked tool
OurFamilyWizard is the only co-parenting platform that has such an advanced tool for self-reflection. ToneMeter can change the co-parenting experience from the ground up by transforming how you communicate.
Frequently asked questions
Have more questions? Contact Us. We’re happy to help.
Does ToneMeter change what I write?
No, ToneMeter only points out problematic language—it doesn’t make any suggestions or changes. You can choose how you want to change what you wrote.
Do I have to make changes before sending?
No, making changes is optional. You can send what you have written even if ToneMeter shows a warning.
How do you use ToneMeter?
In the areas of the app that use ToneMeter, you can simply start writing. If it notices a dicey area, the grey meter symbol will start filling up in red. Click the meter symbol to expand the feature, and it will show which passages create which impression. If there isn’t any concerning language, then the symbol will stay grey.
Document everything, easily
- Permanently document every message
- Record all messages in one place
- Create custom PDF reports quickly
- Save time, stress and legal fees
Your professionals can download court-admissible reports, too.
Are you ready to communicate calmly?
Get started today with OurFamilyWizard.